No women , please !

Anisha , you don't like women. You don't feel comfortable in their company. You don't want to go to any women - you don't even tolerate eye contact with them *sigh*. Of course , the only exception to this ' no women rule '  is , me.

You clearly demarcate between men and women - even from 7 months onwards. That's the time I saw that you prefer men over women. In the beginning , we thought that , long hair of women scares you. But that was not the case , you didn't want go to women with short hair too. I have no idea how you clearly distinguish men from women -  irrespective of their hair , dressing etc. 

During our India visit ,  in my native place  and in your dad's , people soon became aware that you prefer only men. The news that you don't go to women spread quickly. As a result , women who come to visit you were too eager to test their luck. They tried their level best to befriend you. That made you angry and frustrated. No woman succeeded in winning  your friendship. The moment they came near you stretching their hands ,  your face expression changed invariably - it clearly showed that you were not happy.

On the other hand , when a man approaches you , you were friendly - but not always ! You don't want to go to teenage boys. You prefer middle - aged men and old men. The more manlier they are  , better will be your smile and response. If someone has a big mustache , you will be so kind and friendly to them , you don't want to come back to me *sigh* ! Once a man with a big mustache came to visit us. You were sitting on his lap and eagerly watching his face. Someone was trying to initiate a conversation with him ,  and so he turned his face to talk to that person. You forcefully turned his face with your tiny hands towards you , to get a better look of his mustache. Everyone broke into laughter. oh , my lovely daughter !!!

I still don't understand the psychology behind your behavior. But it is absolutely fascinating to watch you. As a scientist , it is amazing to see how you are attracted towards men ( especially , manly ones ! ) at such a tender age.

When we were flying back to Germany , a beautiful air hostess came near you with a bright smile. Your gave a very unfriendly expression. She didn't expect it. Actually , air hostess take pride in their appearance , in their hospitality. She hid her disappointment and asked me whether she was looking scary. In order to help her feel better I told that you prefer men. She smiled and winked. She said , " oh , she is in the right track " :) 

I am not sure when this " no women rule " will come to an end. Hopefully soon :)

Love ,
Amma